In order to test things in the multiplayer mode locally without running multiple (virtual) machines you can start the game in the debug mode.
You can enable this feature by editing your game.prefs file which is located in
C:\Users\%UserName%\AppData\Local\Gas Powered Games\Supreme Commander Forged Alliance
and add this table at the end of the file:
debug = { enable_debug_facilities = true }
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